Almost a year ago I began university, my boyfriend and I decided we would do long distance and we are still together now. One of the best ways is to offer effective apologies. :), Ah cawlled *you* 'sistah', dun't mean Ah iz wurn too, 'kayyy, shugah? Would they be as lenient? But I don't see the need to borrow trouble by telling your boyfriend if you have learned your lesson and know you will never do . "then the cheeky ugger only went and bloody kissed me, didn't he! Thankfully, he immediately and apologetically backed right off (which was when we woke this other woman and they both left), and, luckily, put his apologetic money where his mouth was by phoning me the very next day to say how stupid and guilt-wracked he felt, assuring me it would NEVER happen again so could I please forgive him and just forget it ever happened. I'm not sure if you are trying to be helpful, or just entertaining yourself with your responses. You might feel guilty about it the next day, but it wasnt a big deal. I was the driver so I did not drink at all just the wto girls. Houston, we have a problem. So this was me subconsciously- not *setting* the standard but showing my maintaining it as per our agreements over only having eyes for each other and always, ALWAYS being 100% honest with each other no matter WHAT. Mercy got too drunk, Cintia was drunk but she was ok so far. Funny, I have never gotten amorous when I have had too much to drink. I am heartbroken but told him I understand that I couldnt be with someone who doesnt trust me. Then you must be doing it wrong. I recall an incident years ago, we were very young, just teenagers, and a girl planted a big kiss on my hubby (then boyfriend) on a night out. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. I'll see you over there. I kissed another man four years ago. Y'know what it all boils down to the lips. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here), but then I was cheated on for years by ExH and I would now put myself first. Not work you put off until 'tomorrow' - TODAY. You're not attracted to him? i asked him how he'd feel if i went and made out with another man in front of him. So many arguments begin because our partners got drunk and kissed someone else while they were under the influence of alcohol. Certainly, that's what I myself meant and expected you to quote Bienne as more or less echoing. As one young man said " time heals" and he's so right. I have to be honest, I have never once had the urge to visit America. True mistakes get owned and rectified. I kissed another guy while drunk. Despite their passion during the kiss though, thestraight guys (quite predictably)all saythey still identified asstraight. I didnt want to cheat on him and I made up my mind it wouldnt happen again. Well, time for some fun questions: would you be telling him about it just to alleviate your own guilt? I'm not condoning what I've done, and it's a totally different set of circumstances, but I remember wishing I had never known about the stupid kiss, as it tainted things for a while afterward. I am biased and do hold strong views because my XH cheated. To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. ;-)). By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. It's mos becoming serious and we really like each other! Confesing to your husband was risky. In the end you're the one who knows your boyfriend and whether he would like to know about something like that or not. Don't hurt him any more than you already have. Actually I really don't have any experience at all. My girlfriend(Cintia), me and my best friends girlfriend (called Mercy). I think my husband could maybe forgive the kiss, but the doubt would be there, he would wonder if this could happen again, and he would be so hurt. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months and I feel so guilty. I'm going to be the best wife I can be going forward. Should find time to respond tomorrow. And has also started crying for no reason when things are going well between us. We were good friends for a few years and have dated in the past but nothing serious. And as for our original subject, who knows maybe she told him. Pointer much appreciated, though. Before delving into my own personal story, Id like to address this subject generally. 8=) ) Again - your choice. I don't see any good coming from me confessing, only hurt and upset and doubt, and think my time would be better spent working on my relationship, and working through the issues that are putting so much pressure on us at the moment. SA you have got it- it is more the "what's behind it" than what happened. A Look at your first kiss after divorce as a new beginning, a new chapter. Good luck. We were chatting when we realised the other woman was snoring. Any help or advise would be much appreciated. Oh, I'm sure he'd be able to forgive her, LOYAL GIRL. Unfortunately, even these last few asides are tantamount to a forum no-no called thread mutineering. I don't know why I need that so much, but I do. Later, he tried to make out and I said no because I felt it was wrong.I told him I needed a uber. Go cold turkey. He's a work colleague by the way, and we would get on well in work but have no contact outside of work). I always prefer to know if something is going on than find out about it later, or worse, never find out at all (the idea of this chills me). I've been Dating a married Albanian man for 6 months already and NOT proud of it.Just wanna share my, Hurt my ex girlfriend, feel guilty and don't know what to do. We have only been seeing each other for the past two months and I dont want his mind racing with bad thoughts. Since he felt there was an attraction with you two. NOT telling your partner is not protecting your partner and your marriage, it's self-protection against having to do the work called, Atonement, so you can ignore likeminded proponents whose choice from the excuses menu is that (yawn) telling your partner is a selfish act geared towards offloading some of the guilt when actually, perfectly logically, if the marriage is half theirs then so is the responsibility over the fact it degenerated to that point in the first place (excluding the choice-of-unilateral-action part, obviously)because that's how it works. See "The 5 Ingredients of an Effective Apology"; you probably miss at least two of them when you apologize. if you believe you have to tell him exactly as you did here , if your friends you were with are also his say he can ask them . He deserves to know. Lol reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2006): A I had text my husband so he knew where I was and that was ok. Years after my divorce the one thing that still makes me really angry is that my XH should have ended the marriage as thats what he wanted. I was drunk but that is no excuse. Oh no worries soulmate, yes we do miss you We'll talk tomorrow. Period. And Brodie groped James. The guilt may be strong because you doubt yourself right now and were surprised by your actions. The problem is soulmate if I mentioned some of the things that happened in another in another thread. Well, that's all fairly laudible but Login first I immediately felt totally ashamed after it happened and left the party. There's nothing wrong with feeling an attraction to another person when you're in a relationship. So if for some reason he'd got funny about it, I'd have just dealt with it. I knew this was wrong but my brain wasn't working properly. Im more than competent at the piano myself, but this guy was amazing. I believe in complete honesty, 100%. Visit my website and follow me on Twitter @GuyWinch. My gf went to a house party and got really drunk, and apparently kissed a g My girlfriend got drunk and kissed another guy, 2 months later she got drunk and kissed a girl, HELP. (SK, that award doesn't exist. But you can control whether you nurture the crush or acknowledge it and move on. Yet obviously (action of posting on a forum after having pulled the snog plug) you don't like that bit. You went and MARRIED someone who was your best FRIEND, not your Bam!, Pow!, "oh my god there is a god!" You have no right to unburden your conscience at the expense of your partners happiness. Houston, this team needs to identify then agree over what's causing it. However one night a boy kissed me and I kissed him back. And Ill tell you why by first giving you some context the back. My piano instructor came over once a week, usually on a Saturday when my husband was home. Kissed someone on vakation while drunk, cheating or not? But maybe I should have My thoughts are that he has been persuing her. I can't stop playing it over again and again. And now you - who finds trust difficult - have been tempted to do your OWN test (already commencedwhilst drunk), approached via the psychological end. But I do have to state it or I'm failing to do this role properly as well as my innate compulsion to be unwaveringly socially and morally responsible - meaning, if you don't want to respond, don't. As long as you are sincere about making this work, your punishment should be to bear this guilt. The other day, I had a first with my partner Flo: I put my tongue in another mans mouth while he stood by only to observe. Thank you. Team spirit is this: Turning off notifications, deleting messages, and hiding chat apps may all indicate secrecy. You drank and you kissed. Dont tell me now that youre in love with him.. This feels huge to me. I'm mortified. Social media, the Internet, texting and so on. I speak from experience when I say that when that intimacy starts to die, it can be the start of the end. A number of years ago, while I was still married to my late husband, I befriended a guy who was an ace pianist. Translation: I believe I wish to say, what the hell, what were we doing only I have a competing urge to chose a phrase that could be taken two ways, to ask, where are we at aka what happens with we two now? I'm sure you'll survive if you don't tell him and I'm certain that he doesn't need to know. In essence . I was enjoying myself and loving the chats and laughs. Remind her of your good points. Okay. (works every time :-p) Ashley Madison helped things along with extramarital affairs. Tico Franklin, now 40, faced the death . Im guessing that theres a good chance you would have gone all the way if the piano teacher had gone for it. I sent the guy packing with a friendly piss-take (whilst deliberately flashing my ring), and then told hubbie the minute I got home. Need help with your relationship? She may mean it now, but maybe next week she wont, but you cannot rely on it..Is it a pattern of distrust? Can Humans Detect Text by AI Chatbot GPT? It's quick, easy, free and you don't have to leave your real name. How is that beneficial to him? I love your stories, Foxie. Yes one should take care of themselves before getting drunk. If you want to know the why's, you're going to have to be willing to hear the darkest part of what makes me, ME. My husband always encouraged me to pursue music, and, when I told him that this guy wanted to give me advanced piano lessons, my husband was in favor of this. I could tell that he had a thing for you. Not Opening Up To You Anymore Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended! Which may not seem like a big deal for some of you. (Y)), Hey its really grtt to hear tht u really care n lot of emotion for ur hubbyv only come to kno abt our loyalty only when things like this happens.u kissed him thn u realised that u hv done mistake bcoz u really love ur hubby n dnt want to cheat him.but since commuting mistakes is a part of human nature n being human it happened but determined urself for not to continue or commit such mistake is the real proof of being loyal. A guilty kiss involves kissing a specific person while drunk who either has a crush on you or whom you have a crush on, and then using your drunken state as an excuse for having kissed that person. ;-D. Ahhhh you're back! What should I do. Thus it's what I *DID DO* - back in September when at an Indian restaurant with friends (I mentioned it on this forum as apropos to someone's thread) and some bloke tried to come onto me.
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